Okay so maybe this whole stress in my life is because I am a control freak. Maybe I stress more because I can't control the outcome of certain situations. Or because the outcome of certain situations are unknown. I don't stress when I know what is going on and know the outcome. You know I really don't want to control situations,w I think I stress becase I don't kn ow how things are going to turn out. I also go back to my assumption that I don't. Have enough faith. I have "dinky" faith. If I had enough faith I would know that God is taking care of all of this for me. So more prayer and a little Zoloft. That is the answer.